deathworthy:

“Abuse made you who you are now! It shaped you!”

I call bullshit. Abuse didnt shape you. You arent some angellic survivor that needs to have books and poetry written because of. You survived because you had to. You didnt have any choice but to survive or die. Abuse didnt shape you, you did. You saved yourself. You pushed through for yourself. You are you because of you. YOU are why you are who you are today. Abuse fucked you up.

Yes, abuse fucked you to pieces. But guess who glued those pieces together and continues to hold them together every single day? Guess who.

You do. So be proud.