virgoassbitch:

All connections are irreplaceable because all connections are unique. But the world is full of connections. Don’t fall into the mindset of thinking you HAVE to make something work because you “can’t imagine feeling this way about anybody else.” I’ve been guilty of that myself. Society tells us that’s just romance. To me though, that’s a lie and it’s toxic. Everything is a choice. When you’re in a relationship, you’re choosing that person. But don’t ever believe that there isn’t anyone else you could be just as happy with. To me, it’s more romantic to CHOOSE somebody despite the world than to feel like you’re stuck with someone. Or to believe they’re somehow your one shot at true love or something like that. Soulmates aren’t just romantic, not everyone you date is a soulmate of yours, and just cause you’re soulmates doesn’t mean you’re going to end up together or that you can’t be happy with anyone else if you breakup. I don’t believe there is any “one” person for anyone.