In bigger letters for those in the back:
As a critiquer, your job is not to “make this piece of writing better” but to understand what the writer wants to achieve and help them to achieve it
Applies beyond writing as well.
Also applies to editing. I was recently talking to another writer whose editor (at a publisher) almost destroyed her desire to keep writing. Writers, know the signs of a shitty editor versus one who actually wants to help you achieve your vision, and don’t be afraid to ask for a different one. (Or fire a bad one if you’re indy.)
When I was a teacher, we used “three stars and a wish” when we marked writing. Highlight three positive things about the piece, then frame the criticism as a request. I still keep this in mind whenever I’m asked for an opinion on something by an adult. Always lead with a positive and phrase criticism positively too (“this could be improved/was better in your last piece” Vs “this is shit.)
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